[Music] welcome to ear biscuits I’m link and I’m red this week at the round table of dim lighting we have Lilly Singh known to her fans on YouTube as superwoman superwoman is a comedic vlogger with millions of subscribers subscribers a unique background an empowering voice and a hilarious impersonation of her parents we discussed with her involvement in the religion of Sikhism how YouTube made her lose her religion and why she needs a security team when she meets fans and her parents homeland of India also we did something that maybe we shouldn’t do at least we did it for the first time and that is we gave her our input our advice on her love life well so we’ll see my advice is better see how she takes that we’ll get into that in a second but first i I’ve been holding this story read I didn’t want to tell you what happened to me my airport experience I wanted to share it with all of you out there and with read at the same time so yeah I just don’t like I don’t like for you to hear a story and then have to act like you’re hearing it again so this is but I am very good at that I’m saving I’ve saved this one for all of you together have you ever seen an angel mmm I’ve seen paintings have you ever important in real life yeah some people think they have or maybe they have other people maybe have been angels have you ever been an angel I don’t know that this it works that that’s the intro to my story for you I believe that in some way I’ve been I’ve been an angel is it that a song there’s at country country band Alabama has the song I believe there are angels among us oh and that is kind of what I’m thinking about Oh believe there are angels among us I was one of those angels to somebody okay here’s what happened okay I’m my interest is piqued I flew to Google headquarters for a panel to discuss what we do but things are so busy that we decided that Rhett was gonna stay back and work on some other stuff kind of divide and conquer so to speak and I am just not in the habit of checking flight information ahead of time I don’t I just assume everything’s gonna work out just fine or that they’ll text me or something so I get to Burbank Airport to fly to San Francisco I’m flying back the same night it’s just the first time I’ve ever done that I felt like a businessman getting on a plane for a meeting they get right back on a plane come back to and fro in the same day yeah I get to Burbank and I get up to the the ticket counter and of course nobody’s there at Burbank there’s no lines that’s the beauty of flying out of Burbank and get up there I was okay 10:30 flight to San Francisco sir it’s been canceled okay it’s not not delayed ain’t even happening do they say you got to fly there with your angel’s wings no I said well I mean I got a I’ve got to basically be there in a couple hours and then I’m flying back there’s no way this can happen what can you do they said well there is there’s no other flight out of here can you get to LAX which is at that time of day at least an hour drive to drive all the way across LA to get to LAX huge airport then you got all those problems right well yeah I mean if you could do that so she booked me on a flight out of LAX and I’m gonna get back in the car and just drive there I said well you got to change in my return flight because I’m flying back tonight and I’m gonna get back in my car and drive back so she’s I don’t think I can do that but then she was able to work her magic and do both of those things potential angel candidate okay about the time that I’m wrapping up an old lady kind of walks up almost hobbles up I’m just gonna be honest to the kiosk next to me she says 10:30 flight to San Francisco who I’m sorry that flights been canceled immediate physical bodily reaction from this woman I thought she was going to start crying oh no I I have to meet my daughter she said well there’s a 3:30 flight I cannot wait that late she wasn’t being clear a jerk but she was distraught but she was legitimately upset what was the engagement well I don’t know she’s talking to the moment at the kiosk and the woman at the kiosk said well that’s the best we can do I mean I can book you out of LAX say well how would I get to LAX and I look at her I said this angel right here you can ride with me and I just it is just one of those moments where I didn’t even really think I was just like that wow we’re in the same situation she needs to go to the same place she’s upset she’s an old lady and you know that you know the saying helping old lady across the street what about helping old lady across a los angeles is even better and she’s more work so I said I can take you and she turns and looks at me looks me up and down thanks for a second and she says well I’ll take that risk that’s what she’s yeah yeah so I’ll take that risk and I was like okay you just did it you looked at me and just did a risk assessment and she kind of laughed and the the two girls behind the kiosks started laughing and she said you you look like a fine young man okay I was like I was like I got to go to the bathroom I’ll meet you right back here in a few minutes and then we can get in my car you’re really gonna drive so the lighten the load added an extra passenger so I went to the restroom and then I came back and I just had this feeling of like I don’t know maybe like I was did how I’m do all of a sudden I’m in the middle of doing a good deed are you this makes me feel amazing do you do good deeds so seldomly that they I guess it just gave you a feeling of exhilaration and then we’re walking out to the old lady to the airport no you did not I’m like taking her luggage for like we’re going we’re having to go up the parking deck and she gets in the car she’s talking to her daughter on the phone and she’s like well it’s this this fine young man nice young man has decided he’s going to take me across Los Angeles and I’m still gonna be there I don’t know what time but I think I’m gonna make it and at that point we’re already driving she’s on the phone with her daughter and I’m thinking yeah you should you should tell her that I I’m also gonna chop you up and eat you for dinner like that’s the that’s the joke that went through my mind you kept that to yourself a cannibalistic serial killer Jeff you you should have kept that to yourself right now your biscuits why I thought that I guess because I was surprised that she would just ride with a total stranger out of luck Ross lost a man who needs to get to San Francisco I mean how bad can you be well I could be a serial killer I mean serial killers don’t take flights like that you know I I just don’t I don’t believe that so you’re an angel think the joke that I thought serial killers plan out things over months they don’t just like say I’m gonna go the airport maybe my flight ago he can’t get cancelled and I’ll take somebody to they know they there’s totally circumstantial there she has no reason to be suspicious other than the way you look well I appreciate everything that the last thing you said because I I am torn between thinking I’m a potential serial killer or like an like an angel in disguise so you know we had a we had a lovely hour-long conversation too though what was what was so I was visiting her daughter her husband had recently passed away so she wanted to spend some time with a daughter like RNR I don’t know why she was in such a hurry to get there oh well it would have been better if I said she had to get to like a wedding no she didn’t I’m sorry the birds I have to be honest but we had a lovely hour-long conversation and it’s just funny because I you know when we get there I want to I want to pay for valet and you know I don’t think there’s valet parking at LAX and it turns out there wasn’t but she still gave me a $50 bill Wow and I was the glad at that point that I didn’t say that the serial killer joke out loud because I got the $50 helped her helped her check her bag and get in there we’re on the same flight and she made it and and then you know I got home told my wife and I got some brownie points if you know what I mean from the wife for a B and you know so I’m not telling you people in order to any sort of Wow I’m just seeing how your credit I feel like I feel like I know you well but okay I see how it works how it works in your lien when you do a good deed you surprise yourself you have thoughts of what it would be like if I was a serial killer in this ensign yeah instance and then your wife gives you favors when you do this is I need to be rewarded for this you need to be better self-motivated to think is the answer here it felt good to be an angel I think I’d like to do it one day okay all right full time angel it’s called John Travolta I recommend that okay well you did something good and you know I think it’s appropriate that you did one good thing this week because our guest this week on air biscuits is very much about doing good that’s kind of her that’s kind of her message a Lilly superwoman scene she’s garnered over two million subs and 176 million views in the past three years thanks to her comedic vlogs a couple of examples how girls get ready has four and a half million views and types of kids at school has 4.4 million so here’s our conversation with the angelic question mark this is super the superwoman superwoman [Music] yeah just keep you know whenever you move just keep the microwave are you gotcha just to keep it right there yes sir you can’t hear yourself we can’t hear you kind of looking in a camera if you can’t if you can’t see the camera the camera can’t see you I have to tell that to adults all the time and group pictures you think an adult would know that now I don’t think adults know how to take pictures or am I just referring to Indians right maybe just in his will tell us more about that Indians can take pictures it’s as simple as that my mom tries taking pictures of me with my cell phone true story once went to India I went to every historical place my mom took a picture of me every place and I came home with an empty memory guard hundred percent true story what I guess in Indian parents do not understand the concept of you have to push the button down a little bit and then push it down all the way so it’s just she pushed it down a little bit each time and no picture got she’s focused off I focused a whole lot and no memories were captured she story that’s kind of sad because I mean was that a big trip uh yeah it’s last time on to India suppose like nine years ago and that scarred me and I’ve never gone back except I’m going back next month to take all the pictures again right you’re gonna go all recreate all those scenes gonna get the diarrhea gonna relive all the memories oh you had diarrhea everyone gets a rule and you were asking your mom to take photos of it that’s the only thing I wanted photos focus much don’t know spoke exactly focus I’m so focused right now but it’s it’s interesting because when you take pictures it kind of helps to solidify memories so in the absence of those pictures do you feel like you’re starting to question whether it even happened a percent if I get fuzzy if I don’t take a picture of my cheesecake I feel like I’ve never eaten the cheesecake on Instagram that’s my issue like it validates that I ate that cheesecake and if I don’t have a picture of that cheesecake I never ate it and I feel that this is a symptom of culture seriously we’re dependent upon pictures to supplement our memory and that’s why I only take family pictures with snapchat I just you know I just I take pictures of myself with snapchat of course snapchat for you know in all family pictures in all promotional pictures it’s all snapchat and just lives for a little bit and because I want my memory to hold it I don’t want my MacBook to hold it for my interesting I’m not like that at all my Instagram holds everything well what happens when the grid goes down Lily then I stop living life and that’s pretty much it I don’t even know how existed before Instagram to be honest the only reason I do things these days is because of Instagram and it’s sad but it’s true the other day I got courtside seats to a basketball game I don’t know a thing about basketball nothing about basketball my first thought is like holy crap is gonna be an awesome Instagram picture like that was my first and probably only thought thinking what did you snap I took a picture of one time the basketball hit my leg I took a picture of that I took a picture of my tickets I took a picture of will net ball hit your leg you were actually poised to take no you know it was it was rolling slowly and so I kind of took my camera and I was prepped for one that ball hit my life this is an NBA basketball yes so and this was when like Kobe Bryant was having a conversation with us and I was like can you just stop speaking so I can take a picture right exactly stop being rude Kobe God oh well she’s trying I went to India basketball game but I was in the upper deck how did she get courtside seats this is um this was a meeting I actually also came late and got there at halftime so that seat was empty true story actually in Drake’s seats so that’s how ungrateful I am but um it was a business meeting for a movie that someone wanted to be me to be in and they’re like hey let’s have a meeting uh come to the basketball game so a cool let’s have a meeting courtside and I came in those court snot-nosed all crap I came late and I’m one of those douchebags I came late well I got a picture of my knee I was a power play as a power play so how long have you been on YouTube I my first video was three years ago that absolutely sucked it was mostly because I bought a new blazer and I want to show it off so I made a youtube video but I jacket blazer like a car like like a Chevy Blazer oh god no it was legitimately just a blazer from RW & Co which I don’t know if you have that store here no think we did it’s a fancy store it was a fancy it was $70 I was like Frick I’m showing this off so that’s why I’m in Quenya know it was just gray but it was like sophisticated it was a fitted sophisticated blazer so that’s why I made the video but it was a vlog about the Blazer no it was a spoken word piece about religion it’s so like nothing I’ve ever done before the spoke I really standing there with a piece of paper talking about something and that was my video so you just your motivation to make the video as I look good in this blazer but I’ve got to talk about something yes I don’t know yes and no my motivation to make it a video was the blazer the message though I was like should I do an audio shouldn’t because the record is broken were just like you know what so the video factor was decided by the blazer but the actual message was because I was a little bit of a different person when starting youtube I was very religious and I was very about that and to be honest though YouTube’s kind of change that for me a little bit and I’m not that person anymore so which is why that videos not up anymore I was about to say I you know we just went and tried to find that first video we’re not trying to find that one just saw what your first video was it was not that way so you took it down yep now what’s what’s the religion so the religion is Sikhism okay which you could say Sikhism depending on where you’re from but well if you say Sikhism is okay that’s what we’re gonna say right cuz usually when I say um I have to say that isn’t part one is a six iron fan emus that are like wait what’s wrong with you your sex up ya know thing happens but it’s Sikhism Sikhism which is a religion from northern part of India mostly Punjab uh-huh I’m trying to say facts I really don’t know anything yeah so this is and this is a minority religion in in India right there’s a fairly new religion as well worldwide newer religion as in how new I don’t know I’m gonna say a couple hundred years okay yeah so pretty young religion what are the basic basics of this religion are so one God doesn’t matter what religion you follow whether you follow goddesses gods they believe in just one overall being that’s imageless and they don’t believe in rituals they believe in they don’t believe in which is what they believe in certain things to follow so it’s a little bit confusing i don’t know everything about it but so characteristic traits would be wearing a turban not cutting your hair stuff like that i’m monotheistic religion in india where there’s hinduism which is obviously not that right very polytheistic so how is how’s it different when people when people meet you and they okay she’s from an Indian background do they just assume things about your religious they assume a vegetarian but I am which is kind of not helping my case vegetarian my parents are super strict I’m not allowed to drink a fun party do my eyebrows shaved my legs uh-huh things like that I get a lot of that and that’s obviously not true about it is it depends how religious you are and what you think about religion why I discovered that religion is just not for me it’s because everyone interprets at their own way and having said that everyone interprets at their own way but then also judges people in their own way so really I feel like religion is just whatever you want it to be and people forget that sometimes I’m very curious that you said that as you became a youtuber and developed this career that you have now that that seemed to be the driving force and kind of moving away from I guess what was your religious upbringing so I like to put a pin in that I like to come back to that but let’s let’s go back to the beginning of your each of your story here not even not even YouTube I’m talking about where were you born where were you raised what was that like so I was born and raised in Scarborough which is a pretty ghetto little suburb in India and Kannada so I was born and raised there I went to a ghetto school which explains a lot of my get honest and my videos and I liked love to embrace that so when people find ghetto ghetto is like my neighborhood had a lot of like when the ice cream truck came around it was like the excitement of the weekend and if he wasn’t jumped and robbed it was even better so you’re saying it was like a poor neighborhood or it was dangerous neighborhood I have like my school the area of my school isn’t had a lot of crime a lot of violence it was like we were never allowed to do anything in school never allowed to hold events never allowed to have school trips because it was considered this dangerous area with a lot of crime and gangs and just it was that area I was always on the news it was kind of that you know the media made it into that area that was like don’t go there you’re gonna get jumped or shot or something so so did your parents move from India – yep so – I have that typical story of arranged marriage so my parents had an arranged marriage my dad came to kind of first sponsored my mom over and then they had my sister and I and what what brought your parents over the same thing that brings everything together I was just like oh the dream and the dream of getting a job and just better opportunities and so what line of work was he in or is he my dad when he first came to India had like three jobs he was a furniture he said came to India it’s hard came to Canada he was a furniture salesman he was a security guard my mom worked at a factory currently my parents run a line of gas stations so they have a chain of gas stations that they manage okay and so their marriage was arranged and were they in the Sikh Sikh religion as well so that’s why you were brought up that way oh yeah when you are in an arranged marriage you have no options like that it’s like you have to be the same religion from the same village and went to the same school and Beyond the from the same side of this river it’s very particular of who you have to marry so what age did they get married oh I think my mom was young she’s probably like valid questions probably 20 okay which is pretty old for something 16 so so what was that like five years younger than you yeah what was that this age my mom had two kids so what was it like growing up in a household where you know your parents are an arranged marriage uh-huh yeah there’s a lot of built-up you know when I was your age I never got to do that never got to Dana never had any choices and so it’s like because I struggled and went through this your life also has to be held because of that so to be honest though my parents are super cool like my mom’s I think kind of given up on me in a way as well so I don’t think that’s ever gonna happen to me they’ll never force me to get an arranged marriage and my parents to be honest when I was growing up back to the whole religious thing I was way more religious than my parents my parents were never really super religious to begin with how did that happen I don’t know I feel like it’s just something I connected with growing up I went to the temple way more than my parents they never really taught me anything about citizen be honest everything I learned on my own and it’s just something I really connected with for a certain amount of time and what’s the age difference with your sister six years she’s older older she’s older she’s that normal sibling that’s married and has kids and very normal so she wasn’t really into not at all no no one from my family with the exception of my grandfather but he was even in India when I was growing up so I really have no idea how I went down that path no idea and then so how devout were you what are some clear there was a period of time when I used to go the temple every day I just loved I used to go every day I used to be listening to religious like hymns every day and I just I don’t know it was like for a year or two three the first time I became vegetarian my life was religious reasons now a vegetarian has nothing to do with religion so so the the Sikh religion vegetarianism its interpretation some people say it doesn’t say and you were in there you’re vegetarians some people like no of course page 54 of this this is vegetarian so it’s really if you’re a baptized sick then I believe you do have to be vegetarian again I could be totally making that up so don’t bombard my facebook with religious texts right now so just like Christianity there is a baptism yes yes yes so imagine it’s a different BAP yeah it’s a it’s the same kind of process same kind of rebirth has the holy water you’re getting kind of reborn into this new light same kind of concept so what was it like you know obviously your parents come from one culture and then they come to the West and things are very different for them but they’re basically who they’re going going to be you’re born here so you’re born in the West but you kind of gravitate towards this this religion which represents your culture but at the same time you’re going to this ghetto school you say right so what was happening confusion was happening in my school I was a really big minority as well in terms of culture I was one of like 10 punjabi people in my school so I didn’t have a lot of issues sometimes with racism which is weird because the other kids were also brown with just a different type of brown and I think that might have been one of the reasons why I started to identify with my religion and cultures because I didn’t see it at my school so I was like I want to learn more about it and identify and figure out who I am and that’s probably one of the factors that led me towards it but yeah so there’s a lot of confusion were you shunning some of those Western things that maybe now you’re embracing more oh not at all to be honest I was still very open-minded about pretty much everything the thing about growing up in my family is like I said it wasn’t religious but still very cultural two very different things religion and culture clashed severely there’s things in the Indian culture that are very very super sexist and super elitist and super everything that are nowhere in religion so it’s really that’s one of the reasons why I’ve gravitated away from religion because culture and religion clash too much and I believe it’s all hypocritical but I thought you were saying that it was the the cultural things that were added on to the religion that created the sexism but you’re saying that it’s more the religious beliefs I’m saying I’m saying inevitably people over time connect culture and religion when they shouldn’t be connected so you’ll have people who follow a holy script that’s all about equality and all of this but those same religious people will be like but my daughter can’t do this and my son can so those two become intertwined that’s the biggest problem I feel with religion okay so if you were the devout when I mean your parents were saying things like you’ve got it so much better than I do but you were saying what but I’m denying myself certain things or I’m going I’m more religious than you right so were you imposing more rural keeping on yourself so your parents didn’t have to do that or what was the relationship there it was really just kind of a non-existent one to be honest it wasn’t even like I imposed my religious beliefs on my family they did to me they’re like oh she’s going to the temple great should all the house goddamn this is beautiful for us it wasn’t even like I connected the tune anyway my parents obviously weren’t opposed to me going to the temple they don’t really care it was just a little bit indifferent to them I always had that choice it was never like nilly you have to follow these beliefs and you have to do this even right now as a non-religious person my parents will never be like you need to say you’re sick and you need to follow this you need to go up the temple never they’ll never do that but were they having issues with some of the other cultural things that you’re experiencing 100% culturally my parents hate me you know what kind of things were you doing that they started from when I started doing YouTube videos and even growing up I used to dance I used to be professional funginner dancer and hit like a hip-hop dancer I make youtube videos right now and I’m put myself in the Internet culturally coming from an Indian background my parents hated that when I first started dancing I was literally told like you cannot dance cuz you’re a woman and it looks really bad and people will judge you for that you can’t make youtube videos because the who which family is gonna want to marry like this woman who makes these YouTube videos there’s so many things like that you as a child how did they when you started showing interest and started doing these things and they may have disapproved of how they enforce that well how did they try to enforce it when I started dancing I mom literally said no she tried to make it so I couldn’t she’s like you are not allowed to go do it and it was literally me going I’m going to do it and just a huge fight and just getting her to understand eventually but even now sometimes there’s things were if I was to bring home someone that I wanted to marry one day that wasn’t the same religion and culture that would be an issue that would be a battle in itself so there’s things like that there’s a whole bunch of my parents are super cool my mom knows all the lyrics to Drake but at the end of the day she stole an Indian mother and she has lots of cultural cultural things she believes in that I’m just like mom no maybe she should do it like a lip sync video or something might go viral she probably she knows every lyric to drink just every lurch every surface every song on the radio she’s so cool she’s super suit if you don’t put it on your channel we’ll put it on ours give her her own channel that’s frustrating because she’s so cool in so many ways so leaning now she loves YouTube things she’s just so cool but then there’s certain things that are embedded into them that they cannot change now you mentioned your mom yeah how was your dad responding to these things oh my I can literally say my dad is my number one fan legitimately number-one fan he knows how many subscribers I have at any given moment if you ask him he’ll know the exact number of subscribers I have he knows how many views any of my videos have he knows which collaborations that cutestory he knows what I tweet he doesn’t even have Twitter he doesn’t know twitter is you know how he figures it out he goes to my video goes to the description clicks the link to Twitter and then reads my tweets because he doesn’t understand that you can just go Twitter calm so he goes through that whole process to check my tweets now it’s funny because when you’re talking about your dad and your mom I’ve realized that I am picturing you my characters because you do a lot of that I mean one of the first things that Rena both said when we were watching your videos in prep was happyslip just really you know how you reminded us of her just the way that she would play characters and I guess you know she’s not a white girl maybe it’s just kind of a supportive racism thing that we’re but how she would play all those she and influence um I feel like in terms of the characters one of the biggest influences would be jenna Marbles sure I feel like she does a lot of characters also growing up in the YouTube community she’s white though she is white you influenced by you’ll like I don’t always judge people by the color of their skin just sometimes and growing up there’s also these two youtubers in Toronto who are males and there are Indian um and there are big influence for me as well who’s that so they’re just rain in a que there I hope you’ve probably never heard of them maybe unfortunately they’re just there during one on the Toronto community and probably and in the rest of Canada and India obviously but they influenced me a lot because they did a lot of the characters and a lot of the which is I will always admit because people always pinned me against them and if they’re listening does anyone listen to this will populate all right know how the teenyboppers because in Toronto we are kind of those three Brown YouTube kids and everyone pins us against each other so when I say like yeah I got inspired by them it’s usually a huge huge deal because people compare you and they try to and I just don’t care for that so yeah John Dubrow said I’ve gained a lot of inspiration from them yeah and I think you know like lately link said we’re picturing you playing the characters of your parents and that’s something that you know you’re pulling on that cultural heritage and your the way that your parents perspective and you’re finding comedy in that the people are really connecting with like how did you make that choice that okay I’m going to you know I’m not gonna be ashamed of my background I’m gonna kind of leverage my background and my culture cultural heritage to kind of you know creep my content I feel like there’s two things I go into that one is I want to show people how no matter that my parents are Indian or whatever they’re probably exactly like your parents and that’s an underlying message in all my videos and why I started showing my parents even more or the most cultural kind of stereotypes even more because I love in the comments of people like my parents are this they’re Asian they’re black they’re white they’re but they’re just as crazy as that and so the first time I showed those kind of cultural stereotypes was because I didn’t know anything else that’s what I want to show because that’s what happens at home and that when I started to see that everyone connects with that I’m like this is no longer me showing my Indian parents as me showing my parents that everyone else connects to right that was kind of like a very deep spiritual thing I went through one of the very one of the many lessons YouTube has taught me is just that everyone is different everyone is the same so when you started making your YouTube videos let’s go there so went from dance to and you won that battle huh at what point did the YouTube videos come into the equation so I danced all through my at the end of high school and all through my university life I never did youtube in school while I was still in university which I feel is a blessing because I feel like I would totally just dropped out um so I got my degree and it was in between deciding whether I want to do my masters or get a nine-to-five that I decide to make youtube videos it was literally like it was your undergrad degree in it was psychology so I was debating doing my masters in counseling psychology and I remember doing the applications and I was like I freaking hate this I don’t want to do this at all so I literally went into my parents room I was like listen I don’t want to do my masters I want to make youtube videos and my after the ambulance came and left and all that jazz from my parents heart attack I’ll never forget my dad was like listen you want to make youtube videos just do it the best do it better than everyone else do to the best of your ability and just rock it I’m since then I’ve been attempting to rock it cuz I’m like damn my parents are only gonna be cool this was so long I need to become a superstar or this is not gonna work no that’s interesting it’s interesting way to see it you know especially thinking about like our story of the way that we got into YouTube at a time where it was no-one was thinking about it no one knew that it could be a career it was just like a place to put videos and then everybody kind of started realizing it but you came to kind of a crossroads in terms of your career and one of your options was YouTube so how did you what had happened before that to give you that perspective that YouTube could be a career that point in time had a few videos are and I mean like they were hitting one of my videos like 40,000 views around that kind of range and at that point I had done my research like I was a big fan of Jenna at that time I was a big fan of Ryan big fan of Epic Meal Time and after doing that research I didn’t think that YouTube’s gonna be my career even right now I don’t think YouTube is gonna be that career I want to entertainment to be my career but I thought you two would be a platform for that so at that point in time I had done my research and I think I even had met up with Harley Harley was one of my big inspirations in the sense that I was a little small youtuber and I made a video once that kind of mentioned Epic Meal Time and he followed me on Twitter and I remember fangirling so hard he came to Toronto and I do I’m saying hey do you want to like just meet up and I had the most inspirational memorable conversation with a guy he’s so friggin intelligent and so you have a date with Harley not a I wish I could say it was a date but my manager and my other friend were there cock-blocking the whole situation no it was literally just I was like I really would love to meet you and just like talk to you too because I don’t know much about it so he was so kind he literally met up with me in just the lobby of his hotel we had a drink and just the best conversation ever and from that I remember being like holy crap I’m inspired and this is totally possible he was talking about his merch tongue we’re always conferences conventions by deserts full time just the whole business aspect of it that I’ve never seen before I was like you’re more than a beard and bacon I don’t get it did he use the cheese analogy no okay he did that on it when he was here this table it was it was inspirational I feel like everyone should have a conversation with Harley I think he’s one of the most inspirational people ever met maybe he could be a counselor which seems yeah ironic a Jewish camp several which means his camp experience okay so you so what was when you made that decision to just put YouTube videos up before that before that decision to go for it you know leading up to the 40,000 views here at 40,000 views there what was the what was the initial motivation I know you said okay I’ve got this this new suit new new blazer I’m gonna make a video were you a part of the like an observer of the YouTube community at the time not really not really at all I think I keep became more of an observer of the YouTube community when I got involved in the YouTube community and even right now there’s a lot of youtubers that I should know that I know nothing about it was more so ever since a young age I just loved entertainment I used to dance as I mentioned I love I think I even used to make little silly videos with my cousin’s when I was growing up and I could just never imagine myself having a 95 job even today like I could never ever imagine having a 95 job working for someone I was doing anything that’s not just absolutely weird silly and fun I could never do it so it just kind of fell into place I was like there’s this thing YouTube and when I was growing up in high school there was no YouTube we’ve got no idea what YouTube was and it was like a self-discovery where I saw a video and I was like oh my god what is this thing and solely I was like YouTube I want to do this and this got into it so you were studying Jenna and Harley and other people and then what was your application just to really start making it a career to kind of go for it I can honestly say if my first couple of videos hadn’t been received so well I might have never made another one I was blessed in the sense that I really hit a niche market where this brown girl came on YouTube I was outspoken and I was like what and so I feel because of that was received so well because there’s no other well I hope I’m not making this up I can’t think of another Indian female youtuber does what I do so I really hit that market where people will start sharing and they’re like this is like nothing I’ve seen before and that happened when I started making my first comedy videos it was after I took that first video down and I tried comedy it was received super super well right yeah so I mean you know you intern you mention an interesting thing there that one of the things that sets you apart that you’re a brown girl who is stepping up and speaking in this way that maybe she wasn’t scared to say brown girl culturally there maybe this whole cultural heritage there that is saying you shouldn’t be talking like this you shouldn’t be portraying women in this way or whatever they might say so do you kind of feel like a rebel I would love to feel like that I do feel like that I think being the whole brown girl has its pros and cons one huge con is that no matter what I do I will be hey that Brown youtuber who will always be classified as that Brown YouTube will always be clumped with the other Brown youtubers and that’s what she does that’s like the defining trait is a big Pro because I’m gonna be completely honest if I wasn’t that brown girl and I was just that girl there’s many those girls on YouTube so I don’t think I would have gained that traction in the beginning that I did if I wasn’t that Brown girl so you mean did you observe that the audience was kind of insulated in its and it started in that community under precisely even majority of right now of my fan base is still brown and that’s inevitable and I feel like that’s okay because um I feel like that’s like I said inevitable and I’m not one of those people it’s like no I don’t wanna I don’t want my fanbase to be I talked a lot of people in like I don’t want my fanbase to be just this I don’t but if it’s a majority Brown people doesn’t bother me at all I understand why that would be so do you see a big representation in India yeah fun fact my top five countries one of them is India but across the world my demographic is females aged 13 to 25 the only country where that’s not true is India and which it’s older men watch my videos really yes factual factual proof what you think’s going on there I think all the perverted uncles in India are like woo and they’re just Pervin on me I think next month when I go to India they’re all gonna be there permanent well you know okay this is a you know you’re the psychology major so you tell me but it seems interesting that you know I’m following you know you know better than we do but I read the news and I see some of the things that are happening in the end there’s still just rampant oppression of women and to think that maybe the dudes who are upholding that culture are privately reveling in a girl who is totally rebelling against everything they stand for how does that make you know that’s a lot of deep thought I think that anyone that does those acts of stupidity that you mentioned isn’t that deep to think that far to be honest I think it’s important to mention that just on that nobody touched on it is that India does get a lot of that kind of media that’s like oh look we’re so behind the times but almost every country is like that and I feel like before all my fans like oh she’s just hating on India that’s an important thing to remember is that okay you’re saying it’s not representative it’s not representative of and you’ve cause we see so many stories like that but it happens in every country unfortunately I feel like there are a lot of issues in India that is definitely one of them I feel like I get most of my love and hate from India I’ll just say that most my love and hate is from India I get a lot of that sexist stuff that’s like if you ever came to India like we would disown you you’re just an absolute disgrace embarrassment to Punjabi people but then I get like a whole bunch of fangirls they’re like yes come to India I’m gonna freakin wear my hat backwards just like you right so it’s a mix and so I mean you’re going back mhm and I mean do you have plans to meet up with fans a percent it’s actually a YouTube FanFest I’m going for so it’s a whole orchestrated meet-and-greet performance type thing I’m actually really curious to see how my fans in India differ because I’ve been to Australia New Zealand all over North America and I’m just so curious to see what their feedback would be because they’re probably gonna be the biggest critics to be to be honest and the biggest lovers at the same time so I’ve never gone to any country and experienced in-person hate before and I don’t know if I will in India but I kind of almost want to see what it would be like to be honest I want to see if there’s gonna be an enraged like uncle that’s like know my daughter spoke and it’s because of you like I really cared you’re gonna have security with you under present did you not hear my demographic facts a hundred percent I would have security with me but I feel like it’s gonna be interesting I love India I love it I don’t love everything that happens in it but as the place to go I love it so I don’t want to go you should go yeah we can be your bodyguard prep your bum hole Wow because of the food yeah anything else yeah I mean I at least look intimidating now neither one of us could actually could actually do any harm to anybody but I throw my brow I can assimilate I’m gonna have to side with with the tall man over here because he looks like he could throw on you and me both of the same time even when I firm eyebrows yeah even even when you do the epic rap battle of manliness I feel like wow yeah that was me and my most manliness yeah at that point puberty went through him didn’t you hear him no that was me was that you really I can’t remember who raps why God so your fan base has I mean it is certainly shifted I would I would think here at least it’s you know you’ve got you’ve got this community that is the the core your fan base but you I mean you’re you’re you’re observing that you’re reaching out more right yeah I feel like that has happened more in the last year where I go to meet and greets and I see white people that I’m like oh my god freaking amazing I’m not gonna lie that feels pretty good and not that I don’t not down with my brown homies but it feels good to know like oh my content is actually spreading to more people and I’ve noticed that more and more and more that more multiculturalism is happening out meet and greets and performances and it’s awesome and I think that’s because when I first started making videos it was very Indian mom brown mom Brown this brown that I have some of those videos sometimes but now it’s like girls on their period not brown girls on their periods right it’s I’ve just made my content more global because I want it to be received globally I don’t want to make content just for a specific group of people well I think it’s consistent I mean even with some of the what you’re standing for and some of the things that you’re doing are to tear down some of those barriers so so it makes sense that okay guys I know we kind of built this thing together but this is for everybody I mean one of the things that you say is this peace and strength without fear without hate one love how does that manifest itself in your in your videos that is honestly something that I came to believe through YouTube I’ve honestly think my youtube journey has made me the person I am spiritually so the tattoos I have and say without fear without hate because of my youtube journey um the one love thing because of my youtube journey I just when you read all the comments and you see the world come together on a website and on a web page you’re like holy crap there’s so many people in the world and they believe so many things and there’s so many things going on I just want to bring people together show them that were different but the same like I mentioned earlier so what I mean can you give us a couple of points of how that happened I mean I know that I read that something about the fight you were having a bout with depression right when you started your YouTube channel so even if you could tell us about that and then where you were spiritually at that point as well what was the depression when I went through depression was actually before I started making YouTube videos um just depression of you know I fell out with a few friends in school I really do know what I want to do I hated my last two years of university absolutely not because I wasn’t good at school I just hated school I didn’t want to be there um so I had a lot of trust issues growing up a lot of trust issues with friends fell into depression but a year had a really hard time getting out of it and I was a gradual thing a lot of factors it wasn’t yeah like one catastrophic event just life weighing down on you in general and I remember being on vacation with my family in Dominican Republic and just sitting literally on the beach alone and I was like you know what I think I’d like one or two videos out and I was like I feel like I want to do this YouTube thing full-time and one of my really big deciding factors was I don’t know what it was I can’t even remember I remember one morning I woke up in the middle of Oran towards end of my depression I woke up and I just felt good I don’t know what it was like it was random I hadn’t felt good or happy and so long and one morning I woke up and I was like I feel better today and I don’t know why something switched in my brain it might have been like a movie I watched or something that happened and so one of my deciding factors was holy crap what if one of my videos could be that thing that switches something in someone else’s brain and because of one of my videos they’re like I feel better today for some random reason so that was a really big deciding factor and that’s why all my videos have that underlying happiness motivation because I want to be that switch for people and I am that switch for a lot of people which makes it awesome because I do get a lot of emails that are like your videos have changed my view on this or that so the depression played a huge role and the direction of my videos in terms of the how I became the spiritual more one love I actually and you you guys are lucky because I never talked about the sly sly ones you are I made a video where I talked about alcohol and I had my character religiously dressed up so he was wearing a turban and that was he was drinking and there was a huge backlash from the Sikh community that would like you cannot portray Sikh people like this I still to this day disagree with that because I believe there’s many people who wear turbans that drink and they should also be represented whether or not you agree with that there’s still people and they exist whether or not you want to pretend they don’t is your choice but they definitely do and so I saw nothing wrong with that I was told to take it down I didn’t take it down you were told by your commenters I was told by an organization actually based within Toronto a Sikh organization who I’m actually friends with a lot of them so it’s nothing personal well and by commenters as well who are like no you should take this down and one of the greatest lessons I learned is that well let me ask what were you making a point of a putt that it was hypocrite oh not at all it had nothing to do with religion the video it was simply the fact that that character was wearing a turban and was shown drinking so but religion wasn’t mentioned at all it was implied by his headdress and so I discovered then and I regret it so much I made this whole video after explaining my point of view on it and I regret that so much today because when I look back at that video I realized that out of the 10,000 comments it’s maybe 10 that were like oh you shouldn’t do this but those the 10 that stuck out to me at the time that’s the way it works right it works that that’s the way it works when you’re starting out so I’m his whole video I also deleted that video explaining my situation cuz I learned through this process that I don’t actually have to explain it because I believe in that’s good enough but that really opened my eyes to that I’m actually not a religious person I’m a spiritual person and I think that’s what I was really confused about growing up is that I don’t believe in religious rituals I don’t believe in following rules I believe in spirituality I just believe in being a good person I believe in one God I believe in just honesty and those general values and those are the ones I will portray in my videos not any religious ones so I think the greatest thing that ever happened to me through YouTube is learning that I’m spiritual not religious because it’s transformed me and it’s just overall happy put together person now still being in Toronto and still being probably around some of those people that you got to know through your your religion how have they responded to this transformation and what would you hear them saying after to you after you just said that well that whole group of people I’m like I said I’m friends with a lot of them I see them at a lot of events and I sometimes a bit too much of a unicorn where I’m like if you believe whatever you want to believe and I support you because I support people who believe in something like just stand for something whatever you stand for more power to you man just believe in something so I see them all the time a few of them probably definitely hate me and that opened my eyes even further because I think some of the biggest people who have given me a hard time because of religion are the people who tweet about telling me I should kill myself so that just kind of shows how valid your opinion is when you’re telling me that you’re a disgrace to our religion because you support this you should go kill yourself and you should I’ll be someone another lycée about you and your religious beliefs especially when I look at your activities and you’re way worse than you ever preached to be so I’ve just learned that I just feel like a lot of religion has hypocrisy based in it so right yeah I find it also inspiring that you know coming out of a place of depression through YouTube I mean one would think that opening up yourself to the scrutiny of anyone’s comments it’s just fertile ground to begin depression right but you seem to have found strength in them in the midst of opening yourself up to this scrutiny hmm it’s weird how that works because anyone who’s starting no YouTube knows when you first see those comments they burn those first 10 videos those comments burn and I don’t know what it is like you know since young I’ve always had that strong will when I want to do something I will do it no matter what and sometimes really super annoying because I’m always stressed about stupid crap but don’t be stressed about but a lot of those comments did bother me but I feel like right from the get-go I’ve been so blessed that a lot of my stuff has been received surprisingly positively there’s a lot of people have come up to me and said when you go to meet and greets I don’t you ever have people say nasty things you and I’m like never I’ve never ever in my whole career had someone come up to me in person and say anything terrible to me which is a huge blessing because I know that that’s the opposite for a lot of youtubers so do you see yourself as a comedian or do you see yourself as a spokesman I hate saying the word comedian one because I really don’t think I’m funny and I swear that’s the truth two is because I don’t like categorizing myself into committing I would say entertainer but then I always say platform on YouTube because when I say entertainer people think I’m a stripper so I always have to clarify I say entertainer because I like to do comedy I love to act I love to rap I love to host I love to just entertain in general but do you also feel kind of the weight of people’s expectations in terms of I mean the people that you’re inspiring being a spokesperson in that capacity of I don’t know either representing a community or representing a certain type of person that you want to inspire right I got over the whole situation and debate when I decided I’m not gonna be religious anymore and I’ve applied what I’ve learned from that to everything else I had this rule and I had to literally sit down and talk to myself to discover this rule it was don’t ever go out of your way to try to seem like a role model be yourself and if people want you to be their role model that’s their choice a good example of this is I will never lie and be like oh no I don’t drink at all because I know it’s frowned upon with among South Asian females a lot of people solvation be motioned drink even though their fathers are usually always drunk but um it’s frowned upon I will never lie be like no I don’t then you shouldn’t and it’s bad no because I do drink from time to time but am I gonna post an Instagram video of me being drunk no that’s the rule at Hogwarts like because I wouldn’t do that anyways I’m not gonna promote it I’m not gonna lie about it so what do you think is because there are people who would post a picture of themselves being drunk so cool it is that where is that coming from where do you think that that internal standard is I think that’s coming from me just wanting to be myself and me not wanting to do anything I do for anyone else because that’s one of the reasons I got depressed not living for myself I want to do everything I do for myself I’m having me in the center and if I want to do something and I believe in it I’m gonna do it and a key example is that whole religious thing that happened I could have taken that video down could’ve could’ve totally caved but I didn’t cuz I’m like I believe in this and that’s what I’m gonna do what are some of the you know because you’ve got such a an interesting story and there is so much you know all the stuff that we’ve been talking about all the emotions what kind of opportunities has that led to outside of YouTube I it seems like you just be getting contacted by all kinds of people opportunities it gets unbelievable I never thought I would do stand-up until I got an email saying hey you understand up and it’s the most intimidating thing you’ve ever done but I’ve done stand-up I did a movie last year which I did my first small role in a future film I got to meet Kunal Nayyar who’s Raj and Big Bang Theory who I become friends with him like what how does this make any sense like I watch you on TV so I got to do that I got to be a wrap feature on an Indian artists track who I listened to growing up I was a huge fan of and again I was like how did this happen I’ve met so many cool people I got an ice-cream date with m.i.a she could she DM to me I was like what is going on in my life Paris Jackson Michael Jackson’s daughter and I talk because she’s a fan of my videos like what is my life like what is my life I got understand so many opportunities what kind of ice cream did you give yeah you know I bought her some macaroons and I got chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream and she’s just the most awesome person to ever I think the greatest thing YouTube has ever done is two things take me to awesome places like New Zealand Australia these pieces I would never ever go if it wasn’t for this journey and meeting awesome people I think Michael Jackson’s daughter yeah I’m not met but we’ve had a thorough conversation on Twitter well yeah 140 characters at a time 140 kick butt multiple times multiple hundred four I think she even threw an emoticon smiley face in there one time – so what about you know definitely like those sort of celebrity perk type things but what about people expecting you to I want you to show up and speak about this issue at this place like some of those weightier responsibilities that once you kind of establish yourself as a voice you know when you when you have your background it just seems like people would be like oh we need to get her to come in and speak here or do or do this 100% I feel the first thing people will look at when you are a youtuber of this nature is not what you do so much it’s how many people you do it towards so a lot people must be like hey so blatantly my musics not doing so well you have two million subscribers let’s do a collab track and I’m just like do we because look at my content first and foremost but having said that do get a lot of emails that are like speak at this convention speak about depression speak about Sikhism speak about people getting killed in this part of the world and again my same rules if I believe in it I will do it I am NOT a spokesperson though I’m an entertainer if I speak about certain issues while entertaining that’s fine but I do not want to be a spokesperson because my job is to make people laugh and smile and I feel in my in my own way that is my social service being that switch for people who are upset who are sad because a lot of people times people forget when they email me but in this country people are starving in this country people I totally get that in my personal life you know I sponsor a child I don’t as much as I can not things I need to constantly advertise but as an entertainer I feel wrong picking certain issues that ignoring other ones so my view is – I’m gonna promote one love healthy living loving yourself because those are just as important and it’s all the other issues and maybe that’s because I have a personal connection with that which is probably true if you’re a youtuber who grew up in poverty you’re gonna make youtube videos probably that address poverty when your youtuber that grew up dealing with racism you’re probably gonna address that a bit more right having said that all those people that gave me backlash because of my religious video I probably people that grew up battling those religious issues me I battled depression so my videos are about happiness and love and I think that’s fair and as an entertainer where are you gonna take this um and you want everywhere preferably not homelessness on the unemployment line um honestly I’d love to act I really really enjoy being on set and I’d love to rap more not because I’m super good at it because it makes me feel the best out of everything I do right cuz you’re saying right right now you you you specifically said YouTube is not my career Entertainment is my career on YouTube is a platform right for that so are you like okay well if I could suddenly be a movie star I’m I’m out of here no because you know and this is heavily inspired by Harley I’ll never forget when he told me this is like I think people who get bigger deals and start making YouTube videos are stupid because you have a huge fan base there that’s where you started and you should try to remain connected with that and that really resonated with me of course my whole life I might not be able to make two videos a week but I really hold a strong value should never just be like not making youtube anymore anymore because I’m a movie star I want to be hopefully a movie star that’s like hey guys I’m making a video this month check me out on YouTube I would not want to neglect those fans who got me to the place I’m at right yeah do you have a sense of growing pressure with such a accelerating fanbase and the numbers getting to where they are and the millions and millions is there is there a pressure in what to keep delivering oh yeah 100% I feel like if I don’t release a video on Monday and there people will be outside my house ready to kill me there’s definitely a pressure um I feel like it’s almost scary and I was talking to this app I remember who maybe Davey I was talking to him saying I feel scared that I might get to a point where it doesn’t matter what I release people will like it and a lot of people might get confused by that saying isn’t that awesome you can put on anything and we’ll get like a million views like no because I don’t want my art form to get to that point I want to make sure I have to feel like no I need to impress with this video and do awesome with this video and so I felt I put that pressure on myself where it’s like I can make it in just another Brown parents video and it’ll probably hit a million views but I don’t want to make just another Brown parents video that’s gonna hit a million views so the challenge is figuring out how to expand ya yourself for yourself exactly hundred percent what you have an answer I mean what it’s constantly just trying new things experimenting um what I’m doing in LA actually is collaborating something I’ve not done at all really in my career thus far except with a few people I’m not really in my element when I collaborate so I literally thrust myself into an uncomfortable situation collaborated with a whole bunch of people who I secretly fangirled meeting so that was difficult as well and that’s just one way where I’m like I’m going to up my content and collaborate with people that people would never think I would do it with and I I get the impression based on when you were having communications with Stevi about coming in here that you’re up at all hours of the night yes what are you doing texting you know what body at 3:00 a.m. always you know what it is I have this theory that if you don’t if you don’t lie down at 9:00 you’re absolutely exhausted then you’re not doing something right so I need to be absolutely exhausted when I go to sleep I have a really big issue with being lazy I feel really guilty doing it I feel really guilty you’re nothing you’re not what you’re working you’re not what I’m working at party even when I oh god no I don’t I first of all partying is hiring like like I get tired partying I think I was talking my friend the other day was like 10 o’clock at my house and people are over and I was like oh my god I want to like just lie down cuz I get tired partying I like to work I don’t like when when you send Stevie the text and you’re still up it from working I’ll get from partying yes well I would say that you know I appreciate the sentiment I’ll always want to go to bed extremely tired yes as I’m not your doctor but I will just say on behalf of the medical community you should get eight hours of sleep having said that though you’ll never receive a text from me at 9:00 a.m. or 10:00 a.m. because you’ll be asleep obviously okay so only 3:00 a.m. and 5:00 a.m. shift did I just I just do a lot of you know the excuse creatives use that like no I’m just more creative at 9:00 I do it’s just because we’re effed up and we do stuff at night so you’re nocturnal yeah so I just have a little bit of a shift o’clock okay I get it so when you all told me to come in here at 11:00 I listening to I think it was the black sheep growing up rap group any we’re making this reference right now but he was bragging about going to sleep in the early morning and waking up at noon and I was like so that’s the schedule of a rapper I want to be a rapper you know how about this you know single you’re single right single attractive so how has this affected your love life thanks for saying I have a love life that’s really sweet of you um honestly my love life is interesting in the sense that it is literally whatever people want to be I could right now right here be like I have a boyfriend this is his name and then I can post an Instagram picture with you and you will then be my boyfriend okay I’ve also pictures my cousins with a caption saying my cousin and then people have been like oh it’s her boyfriend so I feel like when you’re in the public eye what you say doesn’t matter like does what Rihanna and Chris Brown say matter at all to what we think not at all we’ll think whatever the hell we want to think and we’ll run with it so but we really want to know I really want to know I will say that is affected my love life in the sense that people see this strong intimidating female and guys are scared of me I’ll say that Wow guys are scary to me like literally running from you um I think guys especially and this is me calling out all brown guys are a little bit intimidated by a South Asian theme Oh who’s outspoken and who’s also sometimes my confidence I’m a very confident person sometimes too confident and I think that deters a lot guys away from me do you think if you had to make a prediction would you think you’ll end up with a brown guy I think I will end up with a guy I really don’t care if he’s brown to be honest that doesn’t bother me at all I feel like if I did end up with a brown guy I would like it because we probably have more in common than someone else and especially then my mom wouldn’t go through depression but but I feel like he would really have to be a brown guy that gets out of that idea that’s South Asian females should be quiet like I would never if he’s like cultured like that then he’ll know that’s not happening right yeah so there’s no candidates right now well I don’t know you two a pretty good-looking like we’re taking it was theirs married there’s no there’s those people that I constantly couple not just rose I said that in a totally defeated way happily married good good I’ll stop hitting on you then so are you wives mr. and mrs. rhett and Link I said Mr by the way I made one of you mr. mrs. Rhett laughs well it’s in that if you put it in the right order I’ll tell you that much this for a second if you had to pair me up with someone what would you describe the guys put you on the spot for a second Wow this is what what what are the characteristics okay if I was playing that white bodybuilder what perfect love it if I was playing matchmaker for you which I don’t play matchmaker with anybody I mean so this is it’s not a good idea this is not a good idea that was a black sheep lyric one time I write I would say that well my prediction would be that you would end up with someone who comes from a similar background but has experienced the same revolution in their life Wow I like that because it just seems like there’s that revolution well you’ve stated it pretty well okay good so I’d like you know your little best answer I’ve ever received this question maybe that’s but but then he is half let’s make him half something like half Oh golly in half imagine I’m done with we can’t breathe him I mean if that we can screw it would be a baby now so we’re not I mean and that would be a highly ethically questionable if we started at daytime in it involved I’m okay or breeding I’m okay with that I mean if you get two different ethnicities in one that’s pretty that’s this that’s a sore who’s really one ethnicity Lincoln I can really tell you Athens I don’t care about it at all like at all I know my parents hate that I don’t care what at all I don’t care what ethnicity the guys I don’t care well we’re not of much help at this point I think I really like your whole I really liked your answer of experience the same revolution it’s very important what about my answer kind of shallow and yeah yeah what okay that was good – but you do anticipate some difficulties with your parents and you also you specifically call out your mom again when you think that no I just say mom weren’t because like she’s my homey okay my dad how do you think that’s gonna go over I think my parents have come to a point in life now especially because of my career choices everything I’ve done is so unconventional where they’ve kind of given up but not in a totally terrible way what if I come home they’re gonna know we’re gonna tell Lily not to do this she’s probably still gonna do it so let’s just start freaking accepting it right off the bat that’s what it’s gonna be literally they know that because they did everything to stop me from dancing I still ended up dancing they did everything to convince you not to YouTube I’m a youtuber I think they’ve accepted that lily is that daughter that’s gonna do what she wants to do right which sucks because my sister is the opposite of that but I’ve already accepted that she’s the star child so it’s like you’ve buttered them up a little bit little bit all the choices that you’ve made yeah bringing home you know a half and a half guy you know what I feel like the greatest thing about this is that I’ve proven to my parents that I made the right choice because they’re so proud of the YouTube thing now right and I think the other kind of trust my judgment so I could bring home a house barge and I’ll be fine seek and a half’s part well it’s been a pleasure getting to know you and hear your story so much it’s time to sign the table oh my god I’m signing the freaking table and that’s our conversation with superwoman the conversation has landed but superwoman has flown away she’s no longer here I learned a couple of things I learned her neck her necks you learned I learned the Kinect Wow and I was about to tell you something about pronunciation and I came up with a word called cred necked okay I learned the correct pronunciation of sikhism and the incorrect pronunciation of correct okay but I also learned that I should potentially start a matchmaking service dad just because my advice sucked doesn’t mean your advice is great I mean she was impressed but basically all you did was you said in a very eloquent way you’re you’re gonna you’re gonna end up with someone who’s had the same journey as you it was I mean it was profound though in her sounded profound I mean did you see the look on her face when I delivered that I felt like I’d found my calling you know it’s like I need to be well maybe I should be a fortune teller because I really just told her her future it’s really what I did I did not match make her make her a match you know like a little ribbon I don’t believe in fortune telling I can’t well of course but it’s all it’s all a scam anyway to make money you know if this doesn’t work out well I can’t support you than that if you want to start a dating site like Rhett helps mingle calm or whatever you want to call it I don’t know Rhett helps you mingle that’s not bad more power to you emphasis on you with no emphasis on the US but you’re saying you I don’t want you to be a fortune teller with me that would be weird to walk into like a fortune telling duo you know you definitely immediately seem outnumbered you feel like you’re the victim of something oh no no I’ll do the fortune teller thing with you but you’ll have an earpiece and I’ll be in the other room googling whoever you’re talking to and feeding you miraculous information about good I like that and say just rephrase something about their own life in terms of that’s who they’re going to want be with in the future and I don’t impress him if we’re gonna do this we probably shouldn’t let people hear this this plan because well we’re not can’t take advantage of anybody oh you’re still listening out there and you’re biscuit land okay thank you for doing that I didn’t know you would hang on this long but we will be here next week to give you another one of these where you can learn how to pronounce or not pronounce things or whatever you know we value the time that you have spent with us in the meantime this week you will have good experiences you have bad experiences you’ll probably eat something and sleep you don’t they’ll also still sleep a little bit but you should sleep more the help that was your larger fortune I was predicting your future for the week [Music] [Music]