oh just forget it I’m still here how would you say you were – I was gonna say list yeah no I was gonna say now it no I’m going I’m going I failed all right well I had a good idea about how we could do this oh I’m not let me get to it all right all right sometimes you got to make a decision in post when they had something figure out when day and that one okay ah look at myself I almost have to sneeze about doing that can you make yourself sneeze but you hear that not the same way that you it’s like a phone when you make it sound like a pony that was different to you that it sounds like us when you go mmm it’s like it’s like put your phone your ringer on vibrate and then put it in your mouth and it gonna call me mm-hmm um the thing I was thinking about was that’s what it’s like why don’t you know these people have made this decision for different reasons I gotta be honest with you the person I have the least issue with is Derrick Manson eating the raw meat for from from a from a this guy went through a process when he was legitimately trying to figure out something for his health now I think he’s crazy that he ended up deciding on a raw meat and you can take issue with that if you want to whatever but I feel that that’s a different thing than somebody who’s just like I’m gonna eat french fries I just eat french fries I’m it I understand these girls probably have some sort of there is something neurological going on but it’s just like I’m very impatient with medicines don’t do a voice for me I’m very impatient with that kind of thing and if like my kid started saying that they were only french fries it’d be like uh-huh I’d be like how about this buddy roll how about you don’t get any french fries for a week and we’ll see what you eat next I mean seriously there there are ways there are ways to take care of this kind of thing I feel like I’m not I’m not trying to be super insensitive I realize that I am being insensitive but sometimes people need a little insensitivity you can’t give some but you can’t give in to somebody who’s legitimately only wants to eat ramen noodles you’ll be like home even if it is I’m in a neurological disorder give that I guarantee you they will eat something else if it comes to if it comes down to it but if you just keep getting I mean it said like my back in the Middle Ages did they have guys who would only eat like I only the turkey leg that’s it I don’t really need any turkey legs they did it was I think that’s it Renaissance Faire I don’t think that’s like a real thing really I mean well then I’m never going back there but I think it’s enough my time machine I think it’s another thing that it’s just you couldn’t have those kind of preferences back then because food was such a different thing the only way these people are actually suffering from an abundance of choices and then they’re zeroing in on one thing because everything else makes them nervous and then they’re just choosing french fries or ramen noodles or chicken nuggets I appreciate I gotta say it frustrates me I appreciate the fact that Dan the cheese pizza guy just owns it and says I just like pizza you know cheese pizza only like on his first date with his girlfriend the one who now gets him to drink smoothies and kind of talked him into that on their first date he was like uh where would you like to eat and just left it open-ended even though he’ll he will only cheese pieces he didn’t say anything and she was like ah Pizza sounds good he was like yes but then together and and she’s like he’s like well what kind of pizza with you like she was like mushroom pizza of course weird and then he ate the mushroom pizza he didn’t say anything Yeah right because there was something more important than his cheese Pete exactly he didn’t go crazy okay him seeming dateable well and he also says in the notes there no he’s not datable I mean Dana I think Dan knows that he only cheese pizza you can’t go out he went to Germany for a week it says and he ate pretzels for two weeks right ate pretzels because the pizza was bad I’m saying you could you take you put somebody in this situation and you say we’re not gonna get you ramen noodles this week but we’re gonna make you go to like beef flavor but I’m saying yeah when I say he’s not dateable what I mean is that it’s very difficult to be a companion to somebody who’s so picky about what I mean to that extreme you know I enjoy going out for a good meal I mean that’s you know I live for that I live for that you live for that I live for the hair get your priorities straight but you know it’s to to not go to go to a place that only had cheese Pete’s well this is an interesting dynamic we actually talked about this recently not on the show but this habit like this whole I just talking about it publicly now this whole idea a lot of times when there’s somebody who has a preference that you find annoying you go to a restaurant with them or whatever and they start ordering things and taking things off of this and adding things and taking things off and in there’s one there’s one school of thought which is just like to each his own man why should you have a problem with someone’s pickiness like why does it impact you if it doesn’t impact you at all I understand the logic but you but you you also you know how I might everything and so everybody’s pickier than me but for you as a kind of a picky person not near least because you used to be well do you you also have that dynamic if you go out with somebody and they’re like I don’t want to eat that I don’t want any that I don’t want that even though it doesn’t impact you sometimes it doesn’t pack you if you’re with them and you’re trying to figure out where to eat but even when it doesn’t impact you there’s just something frustrating about seeing somebody limit themselves that’s just a frustrating thing it’s just like if you meet somebody they’re like I never I’ve never left my house and you don’t even know him the fact that it frustrates me to hear that there’s somebody who’s never left their house I can’t help I can’t help be frustrated with them and be like dude I would just like to take you and just drag you out of your house I have this overwhelming desire to do that time wrong with me because of that well in light well poke their eyes out no just I say here’s your front yard well see how beautiful it is roll around like it right if you want to poke him in the eyes smelled expel the work you want to blind them or take away I don’t want to hurt them I don’t want her that’s not good I want to introduce them to the world really want to help them but I’m saying do you relate to that as a person who’s pickier than me do you relate to that um yeah I mean for my kids they eat a lot more than I ate when I was their age because I forced them to because it’s teaching them to it’s just like it’s teaching them to enjoy a certain aspect of life and then you know no pain no gain you got it you’ve got to force the brussel sprouts down to one day eventually like them same thing with cigarettes and alcohol abuse just kidding Wow hmm take it as you will you do you just think that we should let people do what they want to do and like what they want to like and just not be frustrated with it or do you think it’s appropriate to be frustrated with people who are limiting themselves that’s the I think there’s a little something else going on that I can’t quite pinpoint that increases your frustration level it’s not just a pure desire for people to experience life it’s also that there’s an there’s other things that work along with that that I think aren’t so positive I don’t know what those are but maybe it’s just a predisposition to judge people that we as humans have hmm maybe you have that right you don’t know you don’t get frustrated because you want them to experience more life period there’s something else going on you want them to that’s why I’m asking you because I know that you have the same observation sometimes about people and I want you to I think it’s vocally you’re acting like you don’t have this it is part of your brain it doesn’t know it does it does annoy me I think it annoys me when somebody doesn’t like something that I like and it seems like well somebody’s wrong here and it’s you it’s not me see that’s that’s that’s why I was afraid you thought it was I don’t think it’s about that at all because somebody no you asked me what I saw I think that’s something that makes me angry about it no no I actually enjoy when people disagree about something but at least they but not liking something and not experiencing something is not a disagreement it’s just a limitation does there’s a dip there’s a distinct difference I enjoy hanging out with people who have opposite opinions about major issues with me I don’t like hanging out with a bunch people who agree about the same stuff that’s not that’s not what I’m talking about like the opposite of love is indifference I’m just saying there’s something about people who’ve just limited their world that’s frustrating to me and I don’t know psychologically what it is I’m taking I’m taking it I’m taking I’m trying to figure out what it is about me not about them I’m trying so I’m asking other people to say do you have the same experience the same frustration Stevie does it’s like voluntary like people who don’t want to try things you know like other people likes great food and they’re like – no I’m not gonna like it I don’t like other foods and why is that frustrating to the person who is just a bystander like I even if it wasn’t my friend I was at a restaurant and I saw the interaction between two unattached people that I don’t know I’m not saying it doesn’t frustrate me well but you haven’t said a thing about it so far some so does that frustrate you well I did say a thing I said what I said my theory but what what about it frustrates you I guess it’s the same thing you’re saying I mean it’s uh it seems just like a small like you’re being small for no good reason why not expand a little bit well maybe we haven’t solved any problems today and you just maybe just raise some questions but I’m not gonna get as worked up as you are oh I get worked up about it man I think I should be a tour guide to people who are leaving their homes for the first time ever it’s like if you know of a person who’s never left their home or never left the county call me and I’m gonna take them around you