What’s the difference between having sex and making love? >> Intent. >> Intent and emotional maturity. >> Boys have sex, men make love. >> And some would say that you have to kill the boy to become the man. You don’t. You don’t. I said that to a therapist in Beverly Hills one time and she was like that’s a very all or nothing mentality that she was like you can be the man when you need to be and be business but you can let the boy out to play whenever you need to and it’s healthy to have an inner child. And I was like you’re so right. This is why you’re $220 an hour.