I mean I never had a question am I adopted because like I’m like Asian and my parents are white so mess up if you only found out with a newspaper article from 15 years ago in your bed I think like the context Glu should help my dad he’s a journalist they asked him to do um a piece on um our adoption story for Christmas if I can read an excerpt from it not to embarrass you we talk about your dad picking you and he says I hear a baby fussing to my right not crying but simply making a little noise I walk over to pick up the baby the the fussing stops instantly I’m looking at my future daughter she is gorgeous and I read that and I was like it seemed like predestined in a way that’s really beautiful I’m actually I love that he said fussing because I’m not a big crier but I am a big [Music] like so I imagine that’s kind of what I was doing but my both of my parents always said that you know they had met so many babies and they’d fallen in love with so many cuz how like you meet all these babies how do you but think they were Wai for a moment like moment that felt undeniable and I am so grateful for them and I try really hard to live my life to honor them and and to make you know their choice worth it