the more you guys do things in public like the cosmo videos and the Articles out there these are two people who have lived full lives and gone through a hell of a lot and seem to have found so much happiness through it to be honest I was very very hesitant more so than even Mac to sort of be more public about our relationship but also it’s like you know this is our lives it’s hard to go out and about have conversations and not talk about my family or to not talk about my partner even doing the cover was um Willa Bennett the new editor-in Chief when we when we first spoke with her I was just like here’s the thing we’re not fancy schmancy like I don’t want something over the top because that’s not who we are like we’re really silly it’s like if we’re going to do it I want it to feel authentic because Mac and I are very silly and he’s the first person that I love and I’m also in love with and that’s really special so I want to protect that