smells like a ocean breeze right you’ve been dipping your hair an ocean breeze again yep dip it in the sea who are we kidding smells like Axe okay okay okay so I lost my train of thought when we were talking about the Netflix because I I screwed something up what what did I say I said thanks let us know in the comments about anything that we miss and you said and liking this episode ID so I just I mean it just that’s fine I thought you said the word thing that’s cool I didn’t think there’s anything wrong with it I mean if I started having a problem with every time that kind of thing happened we’d be out of business buddy okay I can own it like I thought I said something that like really was wrong saying something doesn’t make sense it’s fine you can read between the lines okay he wants me to like this episode saying something wrong oh stop the presses we never say anything wrong that’s that’s a 100% true okay um I haven’t I have a theory that I would like to throw out there I’d like to get the rooms opinion and that is you are much more organized than me in general right a personality type you organized you like to do things you have a pattern for things you have a routine for things etc like four keys I don’t have any of that stuff I never lose my keys though I so I’m just so my theory is that I have a hider my key the tighter the routine the more susceptible to exploitation the routine is they’re more susceptible that the routine will just completely fall apart in other words we need to lose a routine what you’re saying is when I get home I hang my keys on the same place every day but if they’re not there the one day out of a hundred like I’m not going to find them at all it’s like a bad news and I just throw my keys where I take my pants off which is which is all over the porches any room sometimes outside I’m taking my pants off outside to California so I mean just the pants not everything so uh I’ll take them off and I’m the one who’s on defensive here no I don’t this this is not I don’t know I take my my wallet and my keys and was like oh you know near a surface and you know what every morning I’m like were there on a surface somewhere and you have to find them yeah I mean it’s a few different surfaces it’s like oh is it that table is it the bedside table is it the kitchen table is it the buffet and the dining room you know and then I find them but it’s mean I don’t lose them how did they get in the drawer that’s the question you put him in the drawer huh you think somebody cleaned up and put him in that room you were like the dorks and you would think about listen what happened was after searching for an hour and a half two hours panic I mean looking everywhere asking everybody in the office Stevie you found them in the drawer do you remember this they were in a drawer at least that’s what you told me so huh I don’t know if if you’re like oh I just made him look for his keys for two hours because they were in a drawer I never opened but that’s where you said you failed oh I didn’t want to throw you under the bus but this is good mythical more this is not a denied yeah guns can happen you’re the one who called me out for doing something which clearly made sense this is getting ugly no um I’m not putting you on the spot I believe that they were in the drawer and it probably was me and I just totally forgot because if I’m doing two things at once I’m only going to remember the one of the two things that I’m doing at once and that’s probably what happened I was like rummaging through a drawer I didn’t know existed while doing something I deemed more important and given all of my thought to that there we go well okay explanation oprah.com I can answer question is it all the time you did I do have any answer to your question where I was going to give even more data about what we’re talking about the simple answer your question was how can a person who’s so organized always be losing stuff and I think it’s well the reason why so organizers because I I know that always loose stuff I know myself and if I didn’t organize things I wouldn’t I would everything would always be lost it would be worse it would be worse you’re saying it’s like a band-aid yes you’re doing the best you can you’re gonna lose things well it’s like a prison I just think you should do this I mean I think that’s the bottom line I mean think about it you could eat anything you’d be ready for anything I’m living in my own prison any time somebody’s like does anyone have an extra spoon you’d be like yeah and it’s bigger than normal and I take it to the restroom with me at oprah.com my favorite website she says are the people who write on Oprah com say you need to find a secure zone which is what we were talking about it’s kind of the principle of the bird the sparrow thing as long as you have a secure zone and you do not let yourself not put your keys there and you’re really disciplined about it that’s what you do I disagree Oprah I know mean you have lots of differences and this happens all the time every time I go to Oprah calm I found myself disagreeing with your advice but I feel strongly that the routine is the enemy and you need to put it down on the nearest surface and just be ready to find it in the morning don’t even think about it don’t even think about your keys just in fact try not to think about keys or wallet or anything as long as this inside you’re gonna find it again there’s plenty of times when I walk in the front door and I want to take my shoes and socks off hmm I could see wanting to take my pants off too yeah we do that I do that at my house all the time you say opening front and doing the shoes off shoes off socks off socks off britches down I like to be relaxed uh arms behind him let it be relaxed you know and it’s just the boys in our house and my wife you know such Oh I mean me and Locke and Shepherd or I’ve got to feel like it’s just we’re always walking around in her underwear disgust that’s kind of what that’s kind of what it’s like in my house you want to come over sometime no okay hey thanks for the warning all right that’s just how it’s gonna be it’s like it’s like a tribe we’re like a tribe I mean I walk I like put I prefer pajama pants yeah I can’t can’t bleed with pajama pants any any man who’s got a pajama pants on is a follower I’m just saying I go out I go out there and whitey tighties and my kids are like he is the tribe leader yeah you know he’s just a dude who lost his pants he’s definitely the chief I should also be in my briefs and its briefs you