why does that graffiti say over there for a good time don’t look at that bomb and we’re out look at that wow I didn’t know what was happening over there I didn’t want to look is it scary gosh that’s what that’s what reproductive parts look like right you know do you know why you’re facing that way you know why babies and just like little people in general become really freaky when you do things like paint um red let’s talk about loveling I mean like I mean like yeah like uh uh yummy just answer your question why why because it looks like blood that’s why no you know you don’t want you to hear my point I’m asking well you asked me a question what’s this what makes them creepy and I’m trying to answer what’s this when you do a horror movie what what’s the scariest possible way do you say oh let’s get a big burly man to go kill people no no you say let’s get a little baby to kill everybody irony man irony makes the world go around you put it you take a little girl in a dress and you put a demon inside her face scary crap dude I think they add the demon impost I’m just saying I’m just saying man that’s what makes that’s what’s good horror is all about I’ve lost you take the most innocent object and make it the evilest possible yeah that’s why this is so crazy but thanks for you know what there should be a documentary about the children actresses who play and and how it impacts their lives being the creepiest one it’s called loss of innocence those kids making it up now we should do that how it impacts their relationships like the girlfriend poltergeist or the girl from Emily Rose their lives the ring girl oh that girl oh that’s the grudge girl um there’s a little girl on that strain I’ve been watching that strain there’s a little girl on that strain that she’s talking like your mom I’ve been watching that sang that sure okay so I gotta say you said that you were confirmed in your suspicions that words of information when you’re number one all the time and I also thought that words of affirmation would be my number one going in why why would you think that why would I think that because I’ve thought about the five love languages and I and I know that it’s not physical touch I know that it’s not quality time because I like to be alone and to not be touched so so those two are taken care of so you might also on you know yours by matter of elimination dip yeah maybe you’re unlovable I mean when someone gives you a word of information does it make you feel good when people and when people do access service for me that’s I feel guilty when people do acts of service for me but I don’t feel guilty when they get me a gift now but I think the reason that gift-giving was my number one is because I just like stuff you know what I’m saying I buy stuff for myself i yeah I buy a lot of stuff for myself and if Jessie gets me but she’ll do like a bunch of little things for like Father’s Day and it’s like oh that those things mean a lot a lot of little things is even better for you than one big thing because you experiences right every item is an experience for you so I get that but here’s the what I wasn’t expecting it to be number one until I started answering the question especially when you consider that typically your love language like you said is the way that you instinctively love other people yet I don’t find you giving gifts that you’re not like a shower of gifts no not and that’s why but I also don’t I think that that can be true but I don’t think it’s always true my wife oh that’s another reason I didn’t think it was receiving gifts cuz you don’t give gifts because I’m like I you know I the fact that my wife is the one who thinks about giving gifts to all my relatives and she figures all that stuff out because I don’t want to do it I don’t think that that’s totally legit there I don’t think it’s legit that receiving gifts my love language they’re letting you always be good at the one that you’re I’m not good at any of them I don’t think that you have a love language no offense it’s fine my wife has all of them so she it’s her fault she’s taking it from you probably but what would you have said well if you had to have guessed as what my number one would be what would you words of affirmation but you know like I said I wanna get any given day they’re so close that I could have answered a little bit differently and maybe it would be 9:00 to 8:00 the other way I mean I just I like when I’m complimented this is pretty ugly I just already simple it’s just pretty simple and whenever I’m going to do something I concern myself with who’s going to be there or I decide if it’s worth doing based on who I’m going with so that’s what quality that that’s how I know those it doesn’t interest because I didn’t I was thinking about I was thinking about everything in relationship to my wife not in relationship to like groups of people that I hang out with um I think I mean definitely if Chris thing goes for Christy though him if she complements me I think that’s the best thing she can do no no I’m saying I’m saying with quality time the way you answered the quality time question made it seem like I want to make sure that there’s going to be the right people at this function I’m totally totally agree with that but in terms of like once I’m in a relationship with someone but like cause obviously not connect because I’m an introvert I know and I do like to do things by myself you know good I mean I think it applies more to I mean Chris and I we like to plan things where we can just hang out and like talk and you like that yeah looks good I mean what do you guys have a sense like Stevie do you have a sense of what your love languages the services one is like like acts of service make life easier you know like when someone like does the laundry or something like that and you’re like thank you so much but also like touch like not PDA but like being like physically with someone you’re out about so are you like a are you a PDA person its net that’s pretty obvious Yuri I mean it no that’s pretty obvious no if you are no you’re saying I think so I was like that that item is pretty obvious on this yeah I think you would know if you if you if you’re a PDA type person you would know it right that’s what I’m saying well but I do think that some people may be like I’m really into physical touch in showing affection in that way but I don’t like to do it in public so I use PDA because yeah that’s one of the ways that I know that my wife likes that but the funny thing is is that when you when you figure out I think why this is so useful is that when you figure out what it is that your partner what their love languages it becomes so much easier to you can you’re speaking their language it is so easy for me to just go up to my wife and just give her a hug or to just like touch her hair and then you have like what I have but my you hug her and there’s a checklist behind and you’re like checking it off which I can’t see but my my natural inclination isn’t to do that right right but we’re not but when I do that which is such an easy thing to do it goes so far it can like change the entire day so that’s a great you know you find out what your partner’s love languages and then the next thing you know right like Christy’s you’ve improved your relationship is this quality time and then I think acts of service so like I’d sweep the floor that’s an act of service you laugh but it’s like in our house stuff gets on that floor I love it like she could she came home last night I swept the floor oh she’s like ooh it’s office on quality time yeah and then quality time is okay what the constructive thing I can do is look sit schedule a date night oh wait every two weeks let’s have a date night but does that is so fun it’s funny because you have the practical thing but then you still don’t do it right but because do you think I’m lazy or whatever so I’ll plan ahead but does that impact what you choose to do on your date because because dinner in a movie is a very common date but dinner in a movie is usually quality time because there’s a two-and-a-half hour period during the date where you’re just watching a movie I feel guilty going to dinner and a movie because I feel like it conveys now I don’t really want to be with you I mean I like I would say that but sometimes is really good if you’re starting to date somebody I don’t know depends on what the person but I’m not starting to date anyone I’ve married but if I was about to start dating someone I wouldn’t be like now never do dinner in a movie as a first date well the good thing about that is that you’re there but there’s not the pressure of having to like buoy a conversation for like two hours if you can’t have a two hour conversation with somebody that you just met it’s one thing when you’ve been married for 13 years sometimes you’re just like let’s just sit here and watch something together yeah yeah you know you’ve learned how to just enjoy the silence sometimes but you just met somebody and you’re on a date with them I mean you should be able to have endless conversation in that stage of unless you’re not a conversationalist I mean there’s people who are really yeah I would say almost I don’t know maybe I’m wrong let’s get the gallery to weigh in here I think that regardless of your level of conversational skills with someone that you’re entering into the early stages of relationship with you should pretty much be able to have endless conversation with them in this conversation yes endless conversation I think that’s coming from somebody who easily conversate so I don’t know I don’t think that’s I think that’s a sweet perspective should be able to talk to each other for a long period of time you should certainly if it’s a first date you don’t know and they are that so you can like set up something like go to a concert so it’s like oh yeah we can go and talk or like well that’s such a that’s I’ve al you that so highly that if I’m not going to sit and have if I can’t have stimulating conversation on our first few dates this is like well that’s the point of this you know I’m saying so maybe that’s just my preference that’s why I think quality time is higher for you because when you think about conversation as a like qualifier of the quality of a relationship but I think this I think this takes into account like I said it takes into account a lot of things and I’m answering it in the context of my marriage and jesting I do a lot of we do a lot of things together and we schedule a lot of time together it’s it we don’t we don’t we definitely don’t avoid each other so maybe there’s just this it’s just part of our relationship I think you were just thinking about this you were just answering the questions to get the most knick knacks it I didn’t I never thought about that because I was always like well I’m not good at giving gifts I know that’s not my love language but boy I’m good at getting them you don’t get a lot of things like this he likes to buy stuff yeah you like things I do like things I do like shiny things right right in stimulating conversation so if you want I think if you want to love Rhett mail em something preferably another one of these he’ll take as many of these as you can mail it read babies hahaha take as many but for me it you know it’s easier just leave an ultra complimentary comment below this video