this is it could be more donkey didn’t you read the instructions I win a dainty invisible food eating contest okay um yeah like I said uh ear biscuits with the two of us I I just I had fun doing that having that ear biscuit I could tell so did I I think that I’m like come on work with me here no it was good it was one where we had a thing that we were gonna talk about and then it kind of became about even more than just that hey you have to listen to know we’re talking about you you feel like you understand yourself better now that I ask you the tough questions Rhett I ask myself those quick questions all the time I’m very introspective um but listen to it let us know what you think um I enjoy talking to other people and getting out of that out of them but I’m glad when we have one where it’s just two of us so we can kind of break new ground a lot easier too you have to take a picture with somebody yeah you don’t have to wait for them to show up right we’re already here whatever you want do it whenever we want to do it no so I didn’t know that you were also redecorating at your house well here’s the thing Christy’s like let’s go to Ikea and look at the lofts I’m like gosh first of all going to Ikea is is just like torture in it once you get in you can’t get out like literally they designed the layout of the place so you just just so disoriented you have to see things in order to get out and like in the very beginning if you took pictures at the beginning of Ikea and at the end you would see and you would look at every mail you see at the very beginning about 60% of them have at least a positive look on their face and 100% of men if you took a snapshot at the end of the IKEA thing it’d be theirs elrod their spirits are broke broken so it’s it’s like it’s like in Texas when you want to like break a wild horse you do certain things well if you want to break a husband take him to Ikea yeah one time we’ll do it right but I wonder I meatball that’s what the meatballs are for them I’ll be in here with the meatball threat which are horse by the way we’ve established well no they’re not they were at a certain point in another country but I digress so we come here because I got berries berry sauce on the loft ended up being way too like in berry or something um expensive once you factored in buying the mattress it’s like we we can’t spend $500 on a loft for Lily’s room but she was so excited about getting stuck in her sleeping bag throw and put on the ground well I love her she’s my daughter well should be prepared for life if you treat her the right way though I’m not you just throw your kid on the ground with a sleeping bag everything up after that point is a improvement well she got her hopes up about this loft and so then we had to say well okay we can’t do that but what if we just rearranged your room and then she’s like that was good enough so then Oh score like you know we were spending there were a few days there where her rooms is all moving around let’s put the bed this way let’s bring you you piece of furniture is coming from your house to my house and but there’s this you know and Christy really likes to decorate and spice things up and change things around her work place is also our home so I get it I’m not I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with it but it’s something that after years of marriage I’ve learned to not create conflict by offering my opinion as to what’s a good idea or is is this in general a good idea like so what you’d arrange men ain’t broke why fix it so you just wait for her to give you a list of tests than you do yeah you nail here hang here mount this picture here but does your wife try to engage you in the process because even though I’ve made it clear that listen when you want to do something like this I make a list I will do everything on the list but if you want to start asking my opinion about how things look and how things should be arranged I don’t want to be there for that but she refuses and she just keeps asking me and so I’m like that nice that looks good dad looks good too you think everything looks good yeah I love it I love being married to you and it’s just everything you’ve all the decisions that you make are great well we know you care what I think but I mean I have a daughter and I’m seeing that that’s starting to help his cranium will work for me but there’s also they can oh they can they have each other ah – now give a pin so like opinions are like I want run into a run like like I’m dodging an opinion who da ere comes another one like backing away slow great though this is like I’m not throwing or being hit with any as like they’re being aimed at other people the other women who live in my house well the sentence I don’t know maybe maybe my wife got the idea from your wife but I got it from their genes but no they have no but in the idea to do it now because we’re doing it at my house – because we decided that it’s time for Locke and Shepherd to have their own room because they’re just because their home school they’re together all the time in there in you know Locke is ten and Shepherd’s five and so there’s this age gap that is kind of it’s becoming automatic conflict conflict a lot so there’s like let’s give them their own space and so we’re moving lock into the the study area which will no longer be it there will be a bedroom and we’re trying to figure out what we’re doing and your wife happened to be over at my house when my wife made the decision to do this and the next thing you know she jumped all over Christy’s organized I mean the things in my house a bit are so organized now they won’t stay this way oh yeah Christy didn’t help move she helped organize in preparation for him she helped no we the to get two different closets now are dedicated to different things as it was a closet dedicated to this and then it calls it dedicated to the boys and now it’s like Locke has his own cause and Shepherd has his own closet and so there’s like things are very organized and increase he contributed to this oh yeah because that’s her dream job is to be a professional organizer I’m glad that some people have a desire to do that I’m glad that I mean Jessie wants to be a decorator that’s all she is but she doesn’t want to be an organized there are two different but complementary things which are interesting that’s you know that’s good for the dishes you sort of business too other they should maybe I should bring some extra bread organizing because you know Lori what’s-her-name from back in North Carolina she’s a professional organizer right she actually came out here to LA to professionally organized some people’s stuff out here in the Los Angeles area like in a storage shed under house in a house I mean I think if you’re like a cut-rate organizer you’d organize people’s storage facility you go to the the like the storage facility so were you successfully able to stay out of this but what you sucked in some did you have to mount anything to the wall I woke up heavy stuff I have mounted I have dismounted and melted so many things this past weekend you would not believe it it’s it’s like it’s like a my taxidermist because that’s where they do they melt oh you wouldn’t believe the amount of holes I’ve packed oh dude I hope match I hold patch every I had minute of my spirit I had so much I had that putty that’s pink and then it turns white I got a tune yeah man that stuff’s awesome I put it in holes that don’t even exist just to see the color change yeah Lando was like dad why are you putting pink stuff on the walls I okay sit tight take a look at dad son you see that turn white finally have a Shepherd and you can write down we need to have our own pink hole filler wheeze it ties it triangle turn white that’s good we could just sell it to the people who already have it but Shepherd asked me a question he was like dad why are you putting that on the wall and I was like well son this wall is sheetrock its gypsum and you think and you said it only like what I’m saying he was awesome yeah yeah but it’s no no and it gets holes in it and then this sheetrock mud is something you can put on there to patch the holes and but then Shepherds land ah yeah yeah doing that so the wall won’t fall down yeah yeah like yeah and so then the rest of the days like well it’s not gonna fall down cuz I guess he’s thinking if there’s enough holes in the wall it’s gonna fall down unless you he thinks it’s a sham this is structural integrity issue it’s not a cosmetic issue you didn’t correct him on that no I was like yeah it’s this on this wall will never fall down because your daddy got hold of it because you know he’s gonna stay up because of this pink turns white stuff it doesn’t matter if anything’s true or false it matters what he thinks of you right and he thinks that you’re pretty awesome you you’re the reason your house is stand he learned about gypsum die I mean not every kid knows about that you know are you sure it’s even gypsum yeah she rocks gypsum in my house it’s not sheet rock it’s the harder stuff harder than Justin it’s like it’s not plaster not plaster but not sheet rock it’s somewhere in between it’s like really hard sheet rock are you sure about this is that exists I’ve experienced it firsthand you might be plaster but plaster if your house is I don’t want a slice list it’s not plaster because I had plaster in a few point in that house that stuff is hard and when you nail something into it and then you remove the like the hanger like it’s adjacent home I think pop softens that happen on your wall no it’s not it’s not plaster right sings called hard sheetrock somewhere in between but you see this is what we’re reduced to guys who find hole patching fascinating because it’s well it’s it’s it’s domestic life well she made this list for me I had like 10 items on it and I’m and did she literally give you a sheet of paper with some written on it I told her that I said I will do everything you ask me today and I’m not even gonna get out of my underwear and I didn’t but it has to be on a sheet of paper and you have to commit to it at the beginning of the day and you can’t add to the list in the middle of the day nope I woke up that was be smart I had I didn’t fix my hair I just had my underwear on and I just said where are the tools and I went around like a half-naked caveman fixing stuff in my house all day and then we went on a date she was happy man she’s so happy all this stuff got done doesn’t take much when you’re married to you I guess